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Af is the biblical word: nose in a minority of its appearances, anger or even, also in most, and in the dual apayim usually face. Chotem is the rabbinic word for the organ, and in the plural chotmin the nostrils proper. Nichirayim, which occurs once in Tanach (Iyov 41:12), is the two nostrils as openings.
Distinctions
Sanhedrin 52a describes the fire that consumed Nadav and Avihu (Vayikra 10:1-2) as two fiery livewires that split into four and entered the four chotem of the two men. It is chotem, the Rabbinic word, that the Gemara uses there.
Af (אף)
Root: Menachem Ibn Saruk and Ibn Janach give א-ף; Radak gives א-נ-ף. Either way a wide family of words might be related to it: nose, anger, face, "even, also, although," and baking. In general, singular af is one nose; the dual apayim, literally two noses, is the whole face. Rabbi Aharon Marcus: the face divides on a left-right axis matching the two sides of the nose. Rashi glosses af now with nichirayim (to Shemos 15:8, Yirmiyahu 17:4) and now with chotem (to Yeshayahu 48:9, Yechezkel 8:17, Berachos 61b). Rabbi Eliyahu HaBachur (Meturgeman) records a telling pattern in Targum: where af means face, Targum typically gives anaf; where it means nose, Targum gives a form of nechar. The Aramaic anaf is itself likely a cognate of the Hebrew af, with a nun inserted in the middle as often happens, and Arabic has a similar anf, "nose"; and Biblical Hebrew has a root א-נ-ף yielding verbs of becoming angry, which is the same nose-anger link again.
- Rashi (to Devarim 29:19, Shmuel II 22:9, Yeshayahu 48:9, Tehillim 18:9, Berachos 56b): charon af is anger because anger shows in the nose as it flares.
- Some have argued that since the nose is a person's most distinguishing and outstanding facial feature, the words for face and nose are related to one another (see Rabbi Shlomo Pappenheim, Cheshek Shlomo s.v. af); and see Rashi (to Yechezkel 23:25, Shabbos 151b) on the chotem as one of the centerpieces of a person's appearance.
- Rabbi Yehudah Aryeh of Carpentras (Aholei Yehudah) reverses the priority: the core sense is face, and it means nose because the nose serves as the symbol of a person's overall mood, anger being physically discernible on it.
Either way, the sense of af/apayim is sometimes ambiguous, and it can be unclear whether nose or face is meant (see Rashi to Shir HaShirim 7:5). Rabbi Klein connects the remaining senses back to the nose: rhetorical af, "even though," turns aside an obvious counterpoint by granting it and holding that the thesis still stands, the objection sticking out the way a nose juts from a face; and afah, baking, takes up the heat of anger.
In the Aramaic portions of Tanach af appears three times and always means "even, also" (Daniel 6:23, Ezra 5:10, 6:5). On that basis Professor Edward Yechezkel Kutscher conjectures that because the Aramaic af seemed unambiguous, Chazal went on using af exclusively in that sense in Rabbinic Hebrew, and so far that it displaced the very common biblical gam (772 appearances in Tanach by Even-Shoshan's concordance). Gam never appears in the Mishnah except where a pasuk is being quoted (Sotah 1:9 quoting Bereishis 50:9; Yadayim 4:4 quoting Devarim 23:4) and once for the shape of the Greek letter gamma (Keilim 14:8).
For the organ itself, af was displaced in Rabbinic Hebrew by chotem. Kutscher asks what drove Chazal to replace a Biblical word with a new one that does not appear in Tanach, and finds it the more striking because words for an ordinary body part usually have the strongest staying power in a language. The usual answer, that Rabbinic Hebrew is more heavily influenced by Aramaic, he rejects here, doubting that chotem is really Aramaic at all: it never appears in Targum Onkelos and is not used in later dialects of Aramaic either. He proposes instead that Chazal preferred the newly coined chotem in order to retire the archaic and ambiguous af, which could mean nose, anger, or "even, also, although." As Kutscher points out, by Even-Shoshan's concordance only 22 of the 414 appearances of af in Tanach mean "nose," so it makes sense that Chazal wanted a new standard word for it. Kutscher notes that af nonetheless survives in fixed compound phrases even in Rabbinic Hebrew: nizmei ha'af, nose-rings (Keilim 11:8, a phrase already at Yeshayahu 3:21), mei ha'af, literally water of the nose (Tosefta Shabbos 8:28, Zavim 5:2), and two phrases taken over from biblical wording, charon af for Hashem's anger (Sanhedrin 10:6) and erech apayim for His slowness to anger (Avos 4:1, 5:2).
Chotem (חוטם)
Not in Tanach; standard in the Mishnah. Identifying a dead man so his widow may remarry requires seeing his chotem (Yevamos 16:3); it appears twice in the tzaraas discussion of which limbs are susceptible (Nega'im 6:7-8), and in whether nasal fluid makes produce susceptible to tumah (Machshirin 6:5). Plural, it is unmistakably nostrils: the two pipe-holes at the southwest corner of the Mizbeiach "like two thin chotmin" (Middos 3:2), and the two chotmim of a miscarried fetus whose limbs have begun to form, said to resemble the two eyes of a fly (Niddah 25a). By extension it is any nose-shaped taper, such as the stem end of an esrog (Sukkah 35b; also Niddah 47a).
The root ח-ט-ם occurs once in Tanach: "for My praise I will restrain (echetam) for you" (Yeshayahu 48:9).
- Rabbi Yehudah Ibn Balaam, in his work on Hebrew verbs formed from nouns, derives echetam from the rabbinic chotem.
- Rashi (to Shemos 15:8 and Yeshayahu 48:9): echetam is holding back from anger, the figurative closing up of the nose that keeps the anger in; similar readings can be gleaned from Rabbi Yosef Kara, Ibn Ezra and Radak (to Yeshayahu 48:9, and Radak in Sefer HaShorashim), and from the Zohar (Mishpatim 122b, Haazinu 289a and 294a).
- Menachem Ibn Saruk (Machberes Menachem) defines echetam as "I am forgiving," noting no connection between that word and chotem.
- Bamidbar Rabbah 5:6 reads it as though the middle letter were a tav, chasum, sealed shut.
- Rabbi Moshe Yair Weinstock suggests that chomet, one of the eight sheratzim (Vayikra 11:30), is a metathesis of chotem, a creature that digs with its pointed snout.
Baal HaChotem as an epithet: the Zohar (Naso 130b) has Rav Hamnuna Sabba davening to the Baal HaChotem, Hashem in His slowness to anger. The Gemara (Taanis 29a) calls Rabban Gamliel Baal HaChotem when he was taken to be martyred by the Romans, and offers no explanation of the appellation.
- Rashi there takes it as the nose being the aesthetic centerpiece of the face, as the Nasi was the centerpiece of his generation, and Maharsha adds that the nose is a limb one cannot live without, as Klal Yisrael of that time could not do without him.
- Rabbi Avraham Nissan Orenstein, in his encyclopedia of Jewish honorifics, cites some scholars who take the nickname as a pun on the closeness of the title Nasi to the Latin naso/nasus, "nose," which is the historical etymon of the English nose, nasal, nostril, nozzle and nuzzle, and of the Yiddish noz.
The Smak is likewise called Ri Baal HaChotem, which Rabbi David Conforte attributes to hair growing on his nose; and asked whether such a nickname may be given to a man with a large nose, the Torah Lishmah (421), under the name Rabbi Yechezkel Kochali, usually understood as a penname for the Ben Ish Chai, answered that it depends on the context.
Nichirayim (נחירים)
Once in Tanach: "from his nostrils goes forth smoke" (Iyov 41:12).
- Classical lexicographers such as Menachem Ibn Saruk, Ibn Janach, Rabbi Shlomo Ibn Parchon and Radak give the root נ-ח-ר, which also yields snorting and braying (Iyov 39:20, Yirmiyahu 6:29 and 8:16).
- Rabbi Shlomo Pappenheim works instead from the two-letter ח-ר, "other than the one before us," which yields acher, machar, achar and achor; from achor comes chor, a hole, since every person has a chor on his backside, and nichirayim is a tributary of chor, since a nostril is a hole in the face. He derives two further words from it: charon, anger, from the flaring nostrils, and charum (Vayikra 21:18), the blemish of a drooping nose. Rabbi Binyamin Mussafia adds the rabbinic nechirah, killing an animal by stabbing the neck, also a hole.
David's warrior Nachrai (Shmuel II 23:37, Divrei HaYamim I 11:39) appears to carry the same root.
Peirush HaRokeach (to Bereishis 2:7): the nose is shaped like an inverted shin, whose name suggests shinui, change, since breath alternates between the right nostril and the left as a man typically alternates in his choices between good and evil.
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Radak on these roots
Sefer HaShorashim
א-נ-ף
To be angry, ענין כעס; אף, anger, is of this root and sense, the dagesh in אַפּוֹ, his anger, standing for its missing nun; and the אֲנָפָה is a bird.
Angry
כִּי אָנַפְתָּ בִּי (Yeshayahu 12:1), for You were angry with me, and פֶּן־ יֶאֱנַף וְתֹאבְדוּ דֶרֶךְ (Tehillim 2:12), lest He be angry and you perish in the way; and גַּם־בִּי הִתְאַנַּף (Devarim 1:37), with me too Hashem was angry. All are ענין כעס, the sense of anger.
The word for anger
ואף הוא מזה השרש והענין, af too is of this root and this sense. With the pronoun suffixes it is אַפּוֹ, אַפִּי, אַפְּךָ, his anger, my anger, your anger, with a dagesh for the nun that is missing. It is written up again at the root אף on its own.
A bird of the name
הָֽאֲנָפָה לְמִינָהּ (Vayikra 11:19), the anafah after its kind, is the name of a bird, and Chazal (Chullin 63a) say אנפה זו דיה רגזנית, the anafah is the dayah that is given to anger.
אוֹדְךָ י"י כִּי אָנַפְתָּ בִּי (ישעיה יב, א), פֶּן־יֶאֱנַף וְתֹאבְדוּ דֶרֶךְ (תהלים ב, יב). וההתפעל גַּם־בִּי הִתְאַנַּף י"י (דברים א, לז), ענין כעס. ואף הוא מזה השרש והענין, ובהתחברו לכנוים אַפּוֹ, אַפִּי, אַפְּךָ בדגש לחסרון הנו"ן. ועוד נכתבנו בשרש אף בפני עצמו. הָֽאֲנָפָה לְמִינָהּ (ויקרא יא, יט), שם עוף. ואמרו רבותינו ז"ל (חולין סג, ע"א), אנפה זו דיה רגזנית.
ח-ט-ם
A single word, אֶחֱטָם: I will lengthen My nose toward you, as the same pasuk says I will lengthen My anger; for anger and wrath are also called חוטם, nose.
The whole entry
One line, on וּתְהִלָּתִי אֶחֱטָם־לָךְ (Yeshayahu 48:9), which he reads as, for the sake of My praise I will lengthen My nose toward you, as the same pasuk says אַאֲרִיךְ אַפִּי, I will lengthen My anger, since anger, אף, and wrath are also called חוטם, nose.
וּתְהִלָּתִי אֶחֱטָם־לָךְ (ישעיה מח, ט), רוצה לומר בעבור תהלתי אאריך חוטמי לך כמו שאמר אַֽאֲרִיךְ אַפִּי (שם) כי האף והחמה יקרא גם כן חוטם.
נ-ח-ר
The nostrils, the two openings of the nose; and sneezing, as of horses, is named for them.
The whole entry
מִנְּחִירָיו יֵצֵא עָשָׁן (Iyov 41:12), from his nostrils smoke goes out: they are שני נקבי האף, the two openings of the nose. Sneezing, העטישה, is named for the nostrils: נַחְרַת סוּסָיו (Yirmiyahu 8:16), the sneezing of his horses, and הוֹד נַחְרוֹ אֵימָה (Iyov 39:20), the majesty of his sneezing is terror.
מִנְּחִירָיו יֵצֵא עָשָׁן (איוב מא, יב), הם שני נקבי האף. ונקראת העטישה על שם הנחירים מִדָּן נִשְׁמַע נַחְרַת סוּסָיו (ירמיה ח, טז), הוֹד נַחְרוֹ אֵימָֽה (איוב לט, כ).
Radak, Sefer HaShorashim, Berlin 1847. Public domain, digitised by Sefaria from the National Library of Israel.
Rav Pappenheim on this root
Cheshek Shlomo
א-ף
In English, our account of his entry
The face, its whole surface; then the nose, the face's chief feature, and anger, which marks both; from these come baking, the eifah, af "even", and adultery
The face, and apayim
Af sometimes means the whole surface of the face: בזעת אפיך תאכל לחם, "by the sweat of your face you will eat bread" (Bereishis 3:19); וישתחו לאפיו ארצה, "he bowed with his face to the ground" (Bereishis 48:12); אפים ארצה, "face to the ground" (Bereishis 19:1). The plural apayim is for the face's two sides, right and left, and since they are never more than two it is pointed with a patach and a voiced yud, as are שנים ידים רגלים רחים, "two, hands, feet, millstones", things always a pair and never more; nouns of this kind are called the pair-name. So ולחנה יתן מנה אחת אפים, "to Chanah he would give one portion of apayim" (Shmuel I 1:5), is a fine, whole portion that has a face, as one would say a whole breast, since a portion cut up no longer has a face.
The nose, the face's chief feature
Af is sometimes the nose alone: ויפח באפיו נשמת חיים, "He blew into his nose the breath of life" (Bereishis 2:7); וברוח אפיך, "and with the wind of Your nose" (Shemos 15:8); וריח אפך, "and the scent of your nose" (Shir HaShirim 7:9); אף להם ולא יריחון, "they have a nose and do not smell" (Tehillim 115:6). The nose is the glory of the face and its plainest sign, as Chazal say (Yevamos 120a) of testimony for an agunah, אין מעידין אלא על פרצוף פנים עם החוטם, "one testifies only to the features of the face with the nose". For that reason, Rav Pappenheim holds, the nose too is called af, the chief part of a thing being called by the name of the whole. באפיו, "into his nose", is plural for the nose's two sides and its nostrils.
Anger, and charon af
Anger too is called af, ארור אפם, "cursed be their anger" (Bereishis 49:7), because anger leaves its mark on the face and the nose. When anger grows until hot air comes out of the nose it is charon af, "burning anger". So ארך אפים, "slow to anger", literally long of apayim (Mishlei 16:32), is plural for two kinds of anger: anger of the face, which is plain anger, and anger of the nose, which is charon af. It means one who is long-suffering with the middling wicked, and also with the utterly wicked who deserve charon af.
Afaf: the face turned on a thing
The verb from af as the face is afaf, of the kind with a doubled letter, which marks intensity: אפפוני משברי מות, "the breakers of death turned upon me" (Shmuel II 22:5); אפפו עלי רעות, "evils turned upon me" (Tehillim 40:13); אפפוני מים עד נפש, "waters turned upon me, up to the soul" (Yonah 2:6). In all of them it is the turning of the face toward the thing, and it speaks of something bad, since whatever goes beyond the plain course points to disgrace. Its opposite is כי פנו אלי ערף ולא פנים, "for they have turned to Me the back of the neck and not the face" (Yirmiyahu 2:27).
Afah, baking: the bread's face
From af comes afah, baking: ומצות אפה, "and he baked matzos" (Bereishis 19:3); ויאפו את הבצק, "and they baked the dough" (Shemos 12:39). Baking makes a face for the dough. Raw dough has no face, its inside being like its outside; once it is baked and a skin forms over it from the fire, that is the bread's face.
The eifah
From afah the eifah, a measure, takes its name: עשירית האיפה, "a tenth of the eifah" (Shemos 16:36); איפה שלמה וצדק, "a whole and just eifah" (Devarim 25:15). It is a vessel holding the flour or grain baked at one time for the household, for a week or a month, by the measure of a middling home. The omer holds the grain threshed from one sheaf (omer); since the omer is a tenth of the eifah, an eifah is what is threshed from ten sheaves, the true amount baked at once for a middling household in a middling oven. The eifah is a tenth of the chomer, a stack of a hundred sheaves like those made in the fields at harvest time, heaps upon heaps of the harvest sheaves: ועשירית החומר האיפה, "and the eifah a tenth of the chomer" (Yechezkel 45:11); והעמר עשירית האיפה, "and the omer is a tenth of the eifah" (Shemos 16:36).
Af, "even": the nose that juts
From af as the nose comes, by borrowing, the word af for what is new and surprising in a thing that goes beyond the plain course. When a statement gathers many subjects, af falls on the one that holds something new and remarkable: as the nose stands out on the surface of the face and makes its mark, so that remarkable thing stands out over the whole statement. That is the אף על פי, "even though", of Chazal's language, used when they speak of something remarkable: as the nose stands out above the mouth, so is such-and-such. Where there is a novelty upon a novelty they say אף על גב, "even though", literally a nose upon a back: the one is new and stands out like a back (gav), and what is new beyond it stands out further still, like a nose set upon a back.
Af ki in the account of the serpent
אף כי אמר אלהים לא תאכלו מכל עץ הגן, "af ki Elokim said, you shall not eat of any tree of the garden" (Bereishis 3:1), is af of novelty: that they may not eat even of the rest of the garden's trees. It is not a question, nor even the serpent's own style of speech, but the style of the writer of the Torah, telling briefly that the serpent drew Chavah into a dispute over eating the garden's fruit, the gist of it being the serpent's contention that they were not permitted to eat even of all the other trees. So ki fits well here, as the word by which the one telling the story announces it, since ki here is used in the sense of i, "if".
Not this only, but even that
האף תספה צדיק עם רשע, "will You even sweep away the righteous with the wicked?" (Bereishis 18:23): it goes without saying that You do not destroy the righteous when there is no charon af, but even when there is charon af and You destroy the wicked, it is still not fitting for You to destroy the righteous with them. ואף בעונות אבותם אתם ימקו, "and even in the sins of their fathers with them they will waste away" (Vayikra 26:39): not only in their own sin, the new sins done by full free choice, but even in sins inherited from their fathers that have become a nature in them beyond a man's power, as when the father was an adulterer or quick to anger and it becomes the son's nature to commit adultery and to rage. Even for those they will waste away, since for all that a man has the strength to bend the shoulders of nature under the yoke of willed and reasoned choice. אף לא אל ארץ זבת חלב ודבש הביאותנו, "you have not even brought us to a land flowing with milk and honey" (Bamidbar 16:14): had you brought us into Eretz Yisrael after the troubles of the wilderness, then, bad and bitter as it is to suffer many troubles to inherit the land, there would still be some way to quiet the complaint; now not even this has come about, for you have completed the bad and the good is left out of reach. Wherever af is used it means afilu, "even", and something remarkable.
Af and gam in the order of the Avos
וזכרתי את בריתי יעקב ואף את בריתי יצחק ואף את בריתי אברהם אזכור, "and I will remember My covenant with Yaakov, and af My covenant with Yitzchak, and af My covenant with Avraham I will remember" (Vayikra 26:42). Had the Avos been named in order of descent, from first to last, gam and vegam, "also" and "and also", would fit, the sense being "this, and needless to say that". Named from last to first, af fits, "not only this but even that": not only will I remember the covenant of Yaakov, near in time, but even that of Yitzchak, farther off, and even that of Avraham, farther still. In that measure the land too will be remembered, far as it is from the lands of exile, since all times and all places are one before His providence.
Af ki: all the more so
Joined to ki, af means kol shekein, "all the more so": הן בעודני חי עמכם ממרים הייתם, "while I am still alive with you, you have been rebels" against Hashem, ואף כי אחרי מותי, "and af ki after my death" (Devarim 31:27); that is, all the more so you will not stop being rebels after my death, a positive that follows from a negation hidden in the statement. Af alone, "even", would fit only had they not rebelled in the speaker's lifetime, to say that even after his death they would not rebel. Since they did rebel in his lifetime, af alone says nothing remarkable of after his death, and so ki is added: "should I suppose of you that even after my death you will not be rebels?", reasoning from one opposite to the other. So too הן צדיק בארץ ישולם, אף כי רשע וחוטא, "behold, the righteous is repaid on earth, af ki the wicked and the sinner" (Mishlei 11:31): should one suppose that even he who is wicked and sinning is nonetheless not repaid? And ואף כי אמר אליך רחץ וטהר, "and af ki he said to you, wash and be clean" (Melachim II 5:13): should one suppose that even a small thing he told you, you are permitted to refuse that too?
Af ki and ve'eich
The midrash counts these statements among the ten kal vachomers in Scripture (Bereishis Rabbah 92:7). Rav Pappenheim distinguishes those with ve'eich, "and how", from those with af ki. With eich the conclusion is stated outright, positive or negative: הן בני ישראל לא שמעו אלי, ואיך ישמעני פרעה, "behold, the Bnei Yisrael have not listened to me, and how will Pharaoh listen to me?" (Shemos 6:12), says in so many words that Pharaoh will not listen; הן כסף אשר מצאנו, "behold, the silver that we found", and so on, ואיך נגנוב מבית אדוניך, "and how would we steal from your master's house?" (Bereishis 44:8), says outright that they would not steal. With af ki the conclusion, positive or negative, is not stated: ואף כי אחרי מותי, "and af ki after my death" (Devarim 31:27), does not make plain whether they will rebel or not; it follows from the hidden negation, understood of itself.
Gam and af
Gam is said where things share in one matter: what is in one thing and also in a second, gam falls on the second. כי גם זה לך בן, "for this one too is a son for you" (Bereishis 35:17); הגם הלום ראיתי, "have I here too seen" (Bereishis 16:13); ויצו גם את השני גם את השלישי, "he commanded also the second, also the third" (Bereishis 32:20); גם מתמול גם משלשום, "both since yesterday and since the day before" (Shemos 4:10); בשגם הוא בשר, "for he too is flesh" (Bereishis 6:3), man too being flesh like the other living creatures; גם צאנכם גם בקרכם קחו, "take also your flocks, also your herds" (Shemos 12:32), as you take your little ones; וברכתם גם אותי, "and bless me too" (Shemos 12:32), as you bless one another, as is the custom on a festival. Af is used where the thing that shares, though it differs greatly from its fellow, still shares with it in the matter spoken of, and that is a novelty. גם כי אלך בגיא צלמות לא אירא רע, "though I walk in the valley of the shadow of death I will fear no evil" (Tehillim 23:4), holds a novelty, but its intent is the plain equality: in a land of peace or in the valley of death he has no fear. Had it said אף כי אלך בגיא צלמות, "af ki I walk in the valley of the shadow of death", its chief intent would be that even in the valley of death, more dangerous than other places, he does not fear.
Af gam, never gam af
Where a statement holds a plain equality and an equality upon a novelty together, it says af gam: ואף גם זאת בהיותם בארץ אויביהם לא מאסתים, "and even also this, when they are in the land of their enemies I will not have despised them" (Vayikra 26:44). The plain equality is that they are not despised whether in their own land or in other lands; the remarkable thing is that even in the land of their enemies, where for their rebellion they deserve to be despised, still they are not. Gam marks the equality, which the statement names; af the wonder, which it does not name outright. The reverse, gam af, is not correct: gam goes back to the matter named, so af may not come between them, and one must say instead mah gam, "all the more".
Na'af: lust written on the face
From af comes na'af, adultery. As anger shows on the face, which is why anger is called af, so the lust for harlotry shows on the face, and one expert in faces knows at once who is lecherous by nature. Most of all when a woman comes toward him: at once his look changes, his lips are like a boiling pot, his cheeks burn like coals of fire, his eyes flash like torches of lightning, and the lines of his face go astray, jumbled and distorted. So na'af carries a nun, the letter that marks being acted upon, because the look of the face is acted upon and changed. Na'af then means not the act of harlotry but the look of the face drawn from the urge to it, and the act took its name from the passing look that comes of it, just as anger itself is called af for the change it works on the face.
Why af serves only anger and lust
That is why af was borrowed only for anger and for adultery. Every other trait, pride and humility, jealousy and hatred, flattery and the like, also marks the face and testifies to its owner, yet a man can hide it and give himself a face as though he were the opposite of what he is. Not anger and lust: when the urge for either overpowers him, no stratagem helps him deny the stirring of his heart and keep his face as it was. It changes against his will, through the suddenness and force of the boiling blood that rises over all its banks and breaks out onto the face in a fierce flood.
Ni'uf only with a married woman
Chazal say there is ni'uf only with a married woman, and Rav Pappenheim holds that this is because ni'uf speaks of the changed face of the adulterer. With a married woman the face changes far more than in other harlotry, since the adulterer bears two fears, fear of shame lest people notice him and fear of punishment from the husband if he notices; lust grows in the measure of the fear, there being no pleasure like completing a deed bound up with many dangers. So the face of one with a married woman, compounded of fear and dread with longing and lust, cannot but change into many colours, and ni'uf is said above all of a married woman.
Na'af and mena'ef
Na'af in the light form differs from mena'ef in the heavy, and no'efes from mena'efes. The light: מות יומת הנואף והנואפת, "the adulterer and the adulteress shall surely be put to death" (Vayikra 20:10). The heavy: זרע מנאף ותזנה, "seed of an adulterer, and she played the harlot" (Yeshayahu 57:3); כן דרך אשה מנאפת, "so is the way of an adulterous woman" (Mishlei 30:20). The light form is what he undergoes from the woman; the heavy is the things he does so that the woman is moved by him to desire, such as winking with his eyes. So a woman moved by the man is called no'efes, in the light form, and one who uses deeds and gestures to rouse the man's longing is mena'efes, in the heavy.
Rav Shlomo Pappenheim, Cheshek Shlomo (Shorashim), first printed from his manuscript by Moshe Tzuriel, Bnei Brak 5777. The English is our account of his entry.
Sources
Rabbi Reuven Chaim Klein, "Shemini: The Nosey Truth," What's in a Word?, Ohr Somayach, 6 April 2024.
Cited in the essay: Bereishis 2:7, 50:9; Shemos 15:8; Vayikra 10:1-2, 11:30, 21:18; Devarim 23:4, 29:19; Shmuel II 22:9, 23:37; Yeshayahu 3:21, 48:9; Yirmiyahu 6:29, 8:16, 17:4; Yechezkel 8:17, 23:25; Tehillim 18:9; Iyov 39:20, 41:12; Shir HaShirim 7:5; Daniel 6:23; Ezra 5:10, 6:5; Divrei HaYamim I 11:39; Mishnah Yevamos 16:3, Nega'im 6:7-8, Machshirin 6:5, Middos 3:2, Keilim 11:8 and 14:8, Sanhedrin 10:6, Sotah 1:9, Yadayim 4:4, Avos 4:1 and 5:2; Tosefta Shabbos 8:28 and Zavim 5:2; Sanhedrin 52a, Niddah 25a and 47a, Sukkah 35b, Taanis 29a, Berachos 56b and 61b, Shabbos 151b; Bamidbar Rabbah 5:6; Zohar Mishpatim 122b, Naso 130b, Haazinu 289a and 294a; Rabbi Eliyahu HaBachur, Meturgeman; Torah Lishmah 421; Prof. Edward Yechezkel Kutscher, Milim V'Toldoteihen (עמ' 75-76); Even-Shoshan's concordance.